Rejection is something that can be hard to endure. The greater we flay our hearts and feelings in a matter the greater the damage. We put so much effort into something only to hear some sort of rejection can be damaging.
I remember feeling a sense of rejection after not winning, nor knowing how well I did, in a science fair project. I felt I put a lot of effort into making the project to the best of my ability, but after not winning, I felt rejection. Maybe you've had some sort of rejection in life and know how painful it can be. Here are some applications to choose from to use this week...
- Unexpected Outcome ~ There are times which you may say or communicate something and the outcome is not what you expected. When someone is working toward a goal and their goal becomes derailed. This derailment causes the receiver to respond in a different manner in which we intended, it will present a sense of rejection. Have you ever felt like this? What is the feeling you felt?
- Mistaken Identity ~ Jesus went back to His hometown of Nazareth and taught in the synagogue. He started teaching and the people were "amazed" and started asking about His heritage. At one point, this caused them to not believe in what Jesus was saying and sharing. They were calling him a "carpenter's son." This title was trying to demean His authority. It is interesting that they didn't even think about Jesus being the Son of God! If they would have understood who He was, they might have understood His power. Are we like that at times? Do we know who He is, but do not think and appreciate what He is capable of? Let us not mistake His capabilities on our lives!
- Missed Opportunities ~ The text says that the people missed out on miracles because of their unbelief or lack of faith. I live a lot of life that deals with opportunities as "I'd rather get a 'no' than an 'I don't know.'" I want to kick myself when I think that I may have missed an opportunity for something good. Sometimes we may not know what we miss out on because there was not a hint of it given. However, I would be so mad at making the choice not to "believe" if this was the result - no miracles. I want every ounce of God in my life that I can. May we challenge ourselves to keep our faith high so we do not have any "I don't know" moments when it comes to any God-workings in our life!
Now it's your turn...what rejection(s) in life have caused you the most grief? How did you bounce back from the setback?
2 comments:
My most painful rejections were being thrust "out" by the "in crowd." For years, I felt miserable.
But when I learned to practice the presence of God, I felt His calm center become mine. What the others did was no longer central to me experiencing happiness. God and I were best friends. I try to keep this memory fresh so I remember to accept those who are new to a group, or feeling rejected. I encourage them as they grow in knowing God personally.
Lynn ~
Isn't it amazing how badly wanting to be "in" a group can hurt when you are rejected, to whatever degree?
Doesn't it make you empathize a bit for our Savior, who was rejected by His own Dad for OUR sake, while on the cross?
What child wants to have their friend (or enemy) chosen over themselves?
Thanks for your comment! I am glad you found a solace in God! It is a great place to be, I agree!
Jarrod
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