Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Loneliness of the Holidays

The Christmas season brings about much joy…to most. However, there are several that may not be as joyous as the season suggests. There are a number of reasons for this lack of joy: loss of a loved one, financial struggles, spouse/loved one overseas in military, no family/friends to spend the holidays with.

When those who are lonely or sad hear “it’s the hap-, happiest season of all”, they probably roll their eyes. They cannot agree with the lyric. They are not experiencing that same feeling. They are ready to get it all over with. They are singing “it’s the sad, saddest season of all”.

You are blessed. Not only do you have a Savior, but because of His plan, there are a group of people who get together on a regular basis. This group is the “family”. We are not connected by human DNA, but rather spiritual DNA. We are here to look out for, to support, bear the burdens, to care for, and to love each other.

We are not designed to be alone, so when we are, we’re miserable. Keep your spiritual radar out for people who you know are lonely, or even those that may just seem that way. Be the joy in their moment. If it is someone you know, maybe you can do something to pick them up.

Remember, that people are accustomed to hearing Jesus mentioned this time of year, so use that to your advantage. Invite them to your house, a church gathering, or anything else that gives them someone to be with this holiday season. Let them see the blessing that comes from having people to gather with and not be lonely. Who knows how God will use the seed from the fruit of joy that you give to people during this holiday season!

Handing out fruit…

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