CRASH, BANG, KAPOW…these are not the most pleasant noises one likes to hear. However, words spoken without love or care come across like this. The tones do not always have to be uncomfortable to have the words be without love.
Speaking to someone in a demeaning way or pretending to like the conversation when you don’t is speaking “not with love.”
Sunday, we looked at the first part of our “IF” series, dealing with relationships. Paul writes in I Corinthians 13 about a few ways we can act that do not show love. We all fall into them from time to time. Here are some applications for you to choose from to use this week…
- Pay Attention ~ Think about how you are speaking to someone. You can probably read it on their face. Do something to make the words most effective.
- They Matter ~ As Christ died for you, He also died for the person you are talking to. Regardless of who they are, they matter! As you are interacting with them, don’t forget their importance!
- Always a Next Time ~ If you blow it in one conversation, remember that there is a next time. Damage may be done, but don’t make it worse, rather see how you can make the future better.
Speaking with love or care can make all the difference to people. It doesn’t matter how great you speak, if done without love it is for nothing!
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