Thursday, January 12, 2012

Friends Call For Your Best

How many friends do you have? That may be hard to count or determine. However, if you are on Facebook, you can look at the number of friends that you have. If you look at mine, I am at 284, but even with that number, I don't know how deep the majority of our friendships go. There are also a number of other friends that I have which are not on Facebook, some of which do not even own a computer.

Have I ever had to "unfriend" someone on Facebook? Yes. Sometimes I wish it was that easy in real life but it's not. There are some people who come into your life you just wish you could take out of your life.

We usually think of a friend as someone who knows you a bit deeper than someone else. Someone who would defend you, support you, wouldn't judge you, would talk before tearing you down, etc. As we focus on the idea of our friends, take a look at this week's quote...

The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best. ~ Epictetus

One of the "tests" of friendship comes about when the "chips are down." I have had some people in my life in which I thought they were "friends" but it turned out they were "fair weather" and when things weren't going as smooth between us, our friendship dissolved into an "un-friendship."

Friends are people who will bring about your best. So, who is your friend? Choose wisely!

Now its your turn...have you ever wanted to "unfriend" someone? Why?

2 comments:

Lynn Hare said...

Great blog, Jarrod!

I am struggling with this very issue. I have a friend who's in a very needy place, and been taking more than giving. It's a tough call to make, because she's in difficult circumstances; her victim mindset seems to overwhelm her; and she's disconsolate.

I am actively praying for her, but have had to slow down a bit to keep things in balance. Not exactly and unfriending, but a gradual release to God in a kind and loving way.

I want to be known as a loving friend - especially when the chips are down. But there are places in our hearts that only Jesus can reach.

Good thing, Jesus will never unfriend us, huh?

Unknown said...

Lynn ~

Thanks for the comment! That's not good to struggle with something, but sometimes friends can zap you.

May your prayers be effective. Sometimes a friend is loving to cut ties, depending on the situation.

It is a good thing that Jesus will never unfriend us! - Unless we unfriend Him first...